When Your Ancestors Stop Whispering and Start Demanding: A Wake-Up Call From the Other Side
"We're tired of telling you," they said through the cards. "Get over your self-esteem issues and recognize what you already have."
The Message That Won't Be Ignored
During a recent live reading session, the same themes kept surfacing across multiple readings—ancestors calling their descendants to account, spirits frustrated with our self-doubt, and the repeated message that we already possess everything we need to transform our lives. This wasn't coincidence. This was intervention.
Stop Feeding Energy Vampires
The first message came through sharp and clear: stop sacrificing your energy for people who don't appreciate you. Whether it's Dimitri who's stealing your peace, the ex who's moved on but still occupies mental real estate, or family members who take without giving back—the ancestors are done with your martyrdom.
"Tell them folks to the left, to the left, to the left," came through the reading. Beyoncé wasn't just making a song—she was channeling ancestral wisdom about boundaries.
The Shango Complex: When Looking Good Becomes Self-Destruction
The cards revealed something deeper about our attraction patterns. We fall in love with appearances—the outer shine that masks inner misery. Like Shango himself, who appeared powerful but died young and unhappy, betrayed by those he thought he'd helped, we chase surfaces instead of substance.
If you know the real story of Shango, you know he wasn't happy at the end. His officials, his citizens, even some of his wives—they all let him down. That's what happens when you build relationships on image instead of authenticity.
The Economy of Hustle: Multiple Streams, Maximum Impact
The financial guidance was practical and urgent: this is not the time for single-income thinking. The ancestors showed multiple streams of income, repurposing content across platforms, and maximizing every effort.
"Don't do double effort," the message came through. "If you make a video for TikTok, download it and put it on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook. You're not doing three or four different productions—you're doing it once and maximizing your reach."
Working Smarter in Hard Times
The spirits acknowledged what we're all feeling—the economy is tight, people are scared, spending is down. Even spiritual services are feeling the pinch. The answer isn't to wait for better times; it's to adapt:
- Offer discounts strategically (the reader gave 25% off coupons for the first time)
- Widen your network and audience
- Use free tools creatively
- Sometimes you have to change your prices to meet people where they are
"You have to think outside the box," the ancestors insisted. "This is about ethical hustle, not scamming people."
Setting Up Your Ancestor Altar: Simple, Not Expensive
The practical guidance for altar work was refreshingly accessible. Your ancestors don't need luxury—they need respect and consistency.
Basic Ancestor Altar Setup:
- A glass of water (preferably an enamel cup or wine glass)
- White seven-day candle (some ancestors specifically requested Guadalupe candles)
- A bowl for offerings (calabash-style if possible)
- Rice (specifically white rice, not Spanish rice)
- Optional additions: cornmeal, corn tortillas, cut-up pork chop
The Freda Factor: High-Maintenance Spirits
For those working with spirits like Erzulie Freda, the message was clear: she doesn't want your Dollar Tree offerings. Pink champagne, pink flowers, and quality food—when you make money through her help, she expects some of it spent on her. As the reader noted, "If you give her cheap stuff, she'll be like 'that's cute, I don't want it.'"
This isn't about being bougie—it's about understanding spiritual reciprocity. Different spirits have different standards.
The Core Message: You Already Have the Goods
The most powerful reading came for Demi, whose cards revealed every major arcana representing spiritual mastery—the Hermit, the Magician, the Hierophant. The message was uncompromising:
"Your ancestors literally don't give two shits about you being initiated in anything. You have what you need, and don't let anybody tell you otherwise."
Breaking Free from the Knight Complex
The reading revealed someone stuck in a "knight position" when they're meant to be in the "king position." Working in the wrong element, doubting their natural abilities, seeking external validation for internal power.
"You have everything within you to manifest and change things in your life, but you don't think you have it," the ancestors said. "Once you change that mindset, things will change very quickly."
The Hermit's Path: Destined to Work Alone
Some people are meant to work independently, spiritually speaking. The cards showed someone destined to be a spiritualist working by themselves—not because they're rejected, but because that's their path.
"Even if you join a tradition, you're still going to be by yourself in some capacity," the reader shared. "Welcome to the pariah club. When you're meant to be by yourself spiritually, you're going to be by yourself."
Mirror Work and Real Self-Love
Perhaps the most challenging guidance came through for Jocelyn: take all your makeup off, look in the mirror, and tell yourself "I love you."
This isn't Instagram self-love—this is the hard work of breaking decades of programming about what beauty "should" be. As the reader acknowledged, "That's hard as shit. I can't even do that sometimes. When you have self-esteem issues or body dysmorphia, looking in the mirror saying you love yourself is hard."
But it's necessary work. The ancestors see past our filters and facades. They want us to love ourselves without the masks.
The Testing Phase
Multiple readings revealed that ancestors are currently testing their descendants to see if they recognize their own power. They're tired of repeating the same messages. They're watching to see who will step up and who will continue to make excuses.
"They're telling me you need to help yourself," came through clearly. "Sometimes when we ask for things and it doesn't manifest, they're saying you need to help yourself first."
Timing and Urgency
The ancestors aren't being subtle about timing. Several readings pointed to major shifts happening within weeks, not months. Relationships ending, financial situations changing, spiritual awakenings accelerating.
"Usually when my spirits make predictions, it's less than a month," the reader noted. This is rapid-fire transformation territory.
Your Marching Orders
The ancestors have spoken, and their message is clear:
- Stop doubting your spiritual abilities—you already have everything you need
- Cut energy drains immediately—protect your peace fiercely
- Diversify your hustle ethically—one income stream isn't enough anymore
- Start simple ancestor work—a glass of water and white candle will do
- Do the mirror work—real self-love, not performative self-care
- Recognize this is testing time—they're watching to see if you'll step up
The Bottom Line
Your ancestors aren't asking for perfection. They're asking for presence and action. They're not impressed by your excuses, your self-doubt, or your need for external validation. They already know what you're capable of—the question is, when will you?
The knight position was never meant to be permanent. It's time to claim your crown.
Ready to stop playing small? Your ancestors have been waiting. Light that candle, pour that water, and start now. They're done whispering—are you ready to listen?
